Starting something new—whether it’s a relationship, a podcast, a business, —is like standing at the edge of a diving board. The anticipation is electric, the possibilities endless, but right before you leap fear creeps in. That initial excitement carries you through the early days, but then comes the middle—the messy, challenging, and often overwhelming middle. This is where the real test begins, and it’s where grit, that unyielding strength of character, becomes your greatest ally. Let’s explore how to cultivate grit to not just survive but thrive through the toughest parts of your journey.
The Middle: Where Growth Happens
The middle of any new endeavor is where dreams are tested. Maybe your business isn’t growing as fast as you hoped, your relationship is hitting rough patches. This stage isn’t a sign of failure—it’s inevitable. Think of it like a marathon: the first few miles feel exhilarating, but it’s the grueling middle miles that build your endurance and define your character.
The question isn’t whether you’ll face challenges—it’s what you’ll do when they arrive. Will you give in to overwhelm and quit? Or will you dig deep and find your grit? Grit is that fierce resolve and unshakeable courage that pushes you forward even when the path gets rocky. It’s where you discover what you’re truly made of.
My Story: Finding Grit Through Struggle
When I launched Courage with Cathy, I was fueled by a vision to inspire thousands to embrace their true selves. I felt a calling deep in my spirit, as if God was guiding me to create something meaningful. But let me be real—there were nights when I prayed through tears, questioning if I was enough, if my little blog could ever make a difference. The middle stage hit hard. Doubt crept in, and in August, I lost my grit. I took a hiatus, overwhelmed by self-imposed excuses and the fear that Courage with Cathy would never succeed.
Why do so many of us do this? Why do we turn down the volume on our dreams and amplify the noise of distractions? We scroll social media, binge Netflix, or pour another glass of wine to numb the discomfort, settling for less than what we’re capable of. I’ve been there, and I know how easy it is to let fear and doubt take the wheel. But here’s the truth: those moments of struggle are where grit is born. It’s in the messy middle that you have a choice—to give up or to fight for what sets your soul on fire.
Rediscovering Grit: A Turning Point
For me, rediscovering grit meant returning to my why. I remembered the people I wanted to reach—those struggling to find their purpose, those who felt lost from past trauma. I leaned into my faith and the belief that my work could make an impact. Slowly, I started showing up again, not because it was easy, but because it was worth it. Each step forward rebuilt my confidence and reminded me that grit isn’t something you’re born with—it’s something you build, one choice at a time!
Grit isn’t about brute strength, it’s about staying rooted in your purpose when emotions threaten to derail you. It’s choosing courage over comfort, faith over fear, and action over excuses. And the beautiful thing? Every time you choose grit, you not only move closer to your goal—you inspire others to do the same.
How to Cultivate Grit in Your Journey
So, how do you find your grit when the going gets tough? Here’s a simple, actionable 3-step plan to help you stay strong in the middle of your journey:
- Reconnect with Your Why: Write down the reason you started this journey. Is it to build a business that changes lives? To start a nonprofit? To grow that youtube channel? Keep that purpose front and center—it’s your anchor when storms hit.
- Take One Bold Step: Grit grows through action. Pick one small, courageous step to move forward today. It could be sending that email or posting your first video. Small wins build momentum.
- Surround Yourself with Support: Share your dream with a trusted friend, mentor, or community who will cheer you on. Rejection and naysayers are part of the journey, but the right people will lift you up and remind you of your strength.
A Prayer for you in 2025
As we step into 2025, my prayer for you is that you find your grit. That you dig your heels in when things get tough, tap into a strength you never knew you had, and earn your own self-respect. Grit isn’t found in the easy moments—it’s forged when you’re tested, when you choose to keep going despite the odds. Instead of reacting to every emotion or setback, root yourself in your values and discover an emotional resilience that carries you through.
You don’t have to do this alone. Find your cheerleaders and take it one step at a time. The world needs your courage and your story. So, when the middle gets messy, don’t quit—get gritty! You’ve got this, and I’m cheering you on!
With Love,
Cathy
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